The lyrics have a kind of healing deep in the soul.
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Returning The Favor
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Returning The Favor
Returning The Favor
Dwight Liles & Steve Siler
I took a step or two or three
And then I fell and scraped a knee
You picked me up, you held my hand
And gently said now try again
But now I walk quite easily
And now you say “Please wait for me”
We step so slowly down the hall
I take your arm so you won’t fall
Returning the favor
I try to remember
The times that you labored
And made it feel like love
When it’s not easy
Admitting you need me this way
Try and remember I’m returning the favor
You say to me “I’m so ashamed”
I called you by your brother’s name
We talk a few more minutes then
You call me by his name again
I almost say “No that’s not me”
But then I stop and let it be
So many times I made mistakes
And you replied, “Well, that’s OK”
Repeat CHORUS
You weren’t always perfect
There were times you let me down
Sometimes now, I won’t be what you need
But knowing that you gave to me the best you knew to give
I’ll give to you the best I have in me
Returning the favor
I try to remember
The times that you labored
And made it feel like love
When it’s not easy
Admitting you need me this way
Try and remember I’m returning the favor
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